rangerofthewest - don't ever let go of that dream, and don't let ANYTHING keep you from pursuing it.

You cannot solo at 14, but there are so many ways to become involved in aviation, learn, and apply the knowledge to being a safe and competent pilot sooner than you would imagine. The EAA Young Eagles program is one way, but even signing up for a ground school class will help you learn about the steps involved and the knowledge you need. The Sporty's ground school online is one great tool for you.

If you have the desire to do this, and are willing to work hard to get there, you can and will achieve your goal.