Bunkie, I am glad that you have discovered that you now have a flair for the flare.
And knowing this, you should have more confidence and be able to relax and just fly. After all, flying a basic airplane in good weather is not really very hard.
A little bit of alertness is good, helps you focus more, but too much is a definite handicap and makes you tense and narrows your attention and can impair good judgement or just make your view too narrow. One way to overcome some of this is to practice the main procedures you do for each phase of flight.
You mention steep turn as a problem. First understand that as the turn steepens, there is less lift and the nose tends to drop. And it is not liner, but progresssive as you go past 35 degrees. , Asyou roll into the turn to begin to add back pressure and/or trim as you go past 30 degrees. if you get over to pretty steep, say 55 degrees and the nose is dropping and starting to get away from you, then just take out some of the bank angle for a moment, back to maybe 35 degrees and catch up with back pressure and then roll back into the 60 degrees or whatever. Trim wil help if you are staying in a large bank for long, like in a 360 degree turn. And remember to remove the back pressure and/or trim as you roll back to level.
In actual practice, not just training there is really not very many times when you want a very steep turn, that is over about 35 degrees. You don't want to do much more that 30 degrees in normal landing pattern. So it is something to learn during training , but not the way one normally flies a light trainer.
Now in a few years when you are flying a Pitts or P-51, that is another matter.