I'm a non-pilot, but basic aerodynamics tell you that a spin is a stall that has one wing stalled more than the other which creates the environment for autogyration. Being a non-pilot, I've been following this thread with more than a little passing interest. It seems to me that if these veteran pilots have given you proper answers, it rests with you whether or not you choose to fly in anything but calm weather. It seems to me, however, that you will spend the majority of your time on the ground or flying within 20 miles of your home airport since weather changes from minute to minute. Good luck!
David